Friday 23 September 2011

Quickie

Thank you all so much for your comments on my last post.  I just quickly wanted to say that I suddenly felt really guilty for saying 'I wish I was stronger' - because not for a single second do I think any of you are weak and in no way (like many less educated about the band) think it's the easy way out, or cheating or anything.  I think you are all so strong and so brave for doing this.  For some reason I can't seem to be quite so kind about myself, even though I'm doing the exact same thing.  I plan to try to look at myself the way I look at you - with admiration, pride and love. x

5 comments:

  1. What I have realized about myself is it's not a matter of strong or weak or anything in between. it has to do with what I consider a long term solution for me. I think we've all lost a good deal of weight on traditional diets. The problem in most cases is keeping it off. The band helps me keep the weight off and keep heading in the right direction (down) Keep up the good work.

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  2. A long time ago, my teeth were not straight. I got braces and have a few veneers :) I wear contact lenses (and glasses when I feel like it). I am a lifelong overeater who now has a lapband. I like making positive decisions to help myself (be healthier). Mari ~ you are a strong woman !

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  3. I think this has been one of the hardest things I have set out to do, we are all strong, so are you!

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  4. Hey Mari! Lapband Gal sent me over!! Just finished reading all your posts! Sooo excited for you and your surgery date - I'm currently playing the waiting game for a date with my surgeon! But totally looking forward to reading more about your journey!!!

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  5. Hi Mari
    So sorry it's taken me a while to get round to posting on your blog. Thanks for reading and commenting on mine.
    I want to wish you lots of luck on this journey; believe me, you have to be strong to be banded and to make the decision to be banded, it really isn't the easy option as anyone who has a band will testify. But the band will definitely help you along the way.

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